Music producer and Mavin Data boss, Don Jazzy, has shared new insights into his private beliefs about love, marriage, and faith, admitting that even with fame and success, he nonetheless struggles with fears of dedication and emotional vulnerability.
The 42-year-old opened up throughout an interview with HabbyFX on YouTube on Monday, the place he mirrored on his previous experiences and evolving views on relationships.
Don Jazzy, who married in 2003 and divorced two years later, mentioned the journey has formed his warning towards love and long-term dedication.
“There are good ones, there are unhealthy ones. My dad and mom have been head over heels in love earlier than my mother died. We see examples like that that make you consider in relationships and crave it and wish one thing like that,” Don Jazzy mentioned.
Private development over marriage
He defined that his outlook on relationships has modified with age, noting that he now prioritizes private development and emotional stability over societal expectations of marriage.
“We do have some unhealthy examples, coming from each side, each women and men. Some males are violent, persistent cheats.
“After which when it now comes out on social media, you come out and also you see like relationship unhealthy breakups and other people popping out to return and put out folks’s soiled laundry outdoors, it now offers me a concern
“You attempt to be susceptible with one individual on the market. I’m nonetheless ready for God. They mentioned whenever you discover the one, you’ll have butterflies in your abdomen,” he added.
{Financial} implications of marriage
The music mogul additionally acknowledged that {financial} implications affect his hesitation to remarry, citing examples of males who misplaced substantial parts of their wealth after divorce.
“A person has to lose half of all that he has labored for in his life — that’s these ones that don’t have a prenup, like in America.
“You see some individuals who have struggled all through their life, however after they divorce, they’ve to separate the properties and issues like that. All these issues used to scare me. The cash that I’ve amassed is for my technology,” he defined.
Regardless of his reservations, Don Jazzy emphasised that he stays open-minded in regards to the thought of affection however prefers to take a practical, quite than idealistic, method to relationships.
When queried one whether or not he had ever given love a strive, he replied, “I’ve truly dated earlier than. At present, I’m single. Na concern, although God’s time is the perfect. I simply need the precise individual. On the similar time, I’m undecided if I’m the precise individual for anyone’s daughter.”